Spicy BLT Avocado Toast

BLT meets avocado toast and has a party with some spicy jalapenos.ย  This hardy toast is a feast of textures and flavors.
Spicy BLT Avocado Toast
 

Say it with me, Spicy BLT Avocado Toast. Perhaps I should start off by saying that I did not think I liked avocado for the longest time. I know, I know.ย  What type of self-respecting southern Californian does not like avocado?ย  I swear I did not.ย  Boy, I have never been so happy to prove myself wrong.

As part of my Tay Tastes Things (again)! Series, I decided to put avocado to the test.ย  Now, I could not just do it any ole kind of way; I had to be different.ย  Therefore, I took something I knew I liked, the BLT, and mixed it with something I was not sure I liked.ย  It was a hit!

That being said, I still do not slather avocado on everything. Oddly enough, I have to continue to remind myself I enjoy the fruit. Since it is after Thanksgiving and I have a couple of pounds of turkey to get through, I am thinking now it is the time to start slicing and smearing avocado on turkey sandwiches.ย  Turkey BLT with avocado and sliced cheddar cheese sounds like a winner to me. Oh, come on!ย  Bacon and turkey go hand-in-hand, same with bacon and avocado, including cheddar, bacon, and avocado. ย It is a win-win situation!

Eventually, I will start cozying up with my newfound love on other culinary applications.ย  For now, I want to take my time to really get to know them. It may take a little bit to integrate avocado into my life, and the Spicy BLT Avocado Toast is the vehicle to usher me into new foodie delights.

Some other honorable mentions for Tay Tastes Things (again) include mushrooms (delicious), kimchi (delicious), Gochujang paste (super flavorful), and Gochugaru flakes (extra flavorful).

I hope you give Spicy BLT Avocado Toast a whirl.ย  At the very least, try something new this week!ย  Enjoy!

Spicy BLT Avocado Toast

Spicy Avocado Toast

BLT meets avocado toast and has a party with some spicy jalapenos.ย  This hardy toast is a feast of textures and flavors.
Prep Time: 15 minutes
Cook Time: 15 minutes
Total Time: 40 minutes
Cuisine: American
Servings: 2
Calories: 361.54kcal
Author: Tay M.

Ingredients

  • 1 tsp lemon juice fresh-squeezed
  • ยฝ tsp granulated garlic powder
  • ยฝ tsp granulated onion powder
  • kosher salt to taste
  • freshly ground black pepper to taste
  • 4 slices bacon thick-cut
  • 8 grape tomatoes large, sliced in half
  • 12 slices pickled jalapenos or fresh
  • 1 handful spring mix
  • 1 handful baby spinach
  • 2 slices bread of choice

Instructions

  • Preheat oven to 350ยฐ.
  • Bake bacon for 15 minutes, drain on paper towels.
  • Toast the bread to the desired doneness.
  • Meanwhile, in a small bowl, add avocado, lemon juice, garlic powder, onion powder, kosher salt, and black pepper.
  • Mix spring mix and baby spinach together in a small bowl.
  • Spread avocado mixture over the toast and top with tomato, jalapeno, and spring mix mixture.
  • Slice in half if desired, then enjoy!

Notes

Feel free to use any lettuce and tomato to your liking.
You can fry your bacon if you prefer.
For an extra kick stir in some of the juice from the pickled avocados.
 

Nutrition

Serving: 1g | Calories: 361.54kcal | Carbohydrates: 24.34g | Protein: 12.01g | Fat: 24.43g | Saturated Fat: 8.05g | Trans Fat: 0.08g | Cholesterol: 38.28mg | Sodium: 549.39mg | Fiber: 4.59g | Sugar: 7.46g | Vitamin A: 8.9IU | Vitamin C: 121.35mg | Calcium: 6.44mg | Iron: 9.87mg
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Stocking Series: Kitchen Utensils

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There are so many innovative and fun kitchen utensils; it easy to get carried away and sometimes lost. Do you need a metal or plastic spatula? ย Perhaps both? ย Whatโ€™s the deal with spring-loaded tongs? Refer to this guide when it the time comes to pick up new kitchen utensils.ย  However, there are a few things to consider before you start loading things into your cart. Letโ€™s quickly go over them.

When selecting kitchen utensils, make sure you have room to store them. Kitchen counter and drawer space have limitations.ย  You do not want to come home, as I have before, with bags of new utensils only to realize there is no room to store them. There are many creative ways to free up room. ย I opted for an enormous swivel kitchen utensil holder from Cooler Kitchen. I purchased three of them in red, black, and white. ย 

Next, consider how much you would actually use the item.ย  If you are like me, youโ€™ll want every kitchen utensil out there. For the most part, I use most of the utensils pretty regularly.ย  Nonetheless, that may not ring true for everyone. Ask yourself, will this item get enough use to make it worth the cost?

A good example is a candy thermometer. While I am a massive fan of using digital instant-read thermometers to get the perfect doneness level, I do not often make candy.ย  When I do, I usually do not need a candy thermometer. If you plan on making homemade candy, this is the only way to go! ย Iโ€™ll be going over thermometers when I write about kitchen tools for the Stocking Series. Instead of getting every tool that catches your eye, like myself, think about getting useful quality items you often use, such as spatulas and slotted spoons.ย 

Kitchen Utensils

The point of this list is to help you create a functional kitchen space. Keep in mind your mileage will vary.ย  For this guide, I am ditching the tier system I usually use in the Stocking Series. The main difference between the tiers would be multiple quantities and varying materials of the kitchen utensils. Each utensil is linked to information about different types.ย  There is so much useful information online that there is no need to reinvent the wheel completely. Feel free to add kitchen utensils that are specific to the type of cooking you do most often.ย  Some ethnic cuisines may require tools that the โ€œtypicalโ€ American home cooks may not readily use.ย  As always, feel free to make adjusts as you see fit.

Vegetable peelers โ€“ Y, swivel, and speed are the most used peelers.

Spring-loaded tongs โ€“ an absolute must for so many culinary applications. I suggest getting varying sizes and materials but make sure they are locking.ย  Locking tongs can help save space.

Solid spoon โ€“ This kitchen utensils, one of the most used in the kitchen, without a doubt.

Slotted spoon โ€“ Having at least 2 of these is a must. On coated and glass cookware, stick with wood or silicon to avoid scratching. ย Stainless steel can be used on uncoated cookware.

Spatulas โ€“ There are many types of spatulas for various uses.

Offset – Most often used to ice cakes; however, its shape makes it easier to spread batters evenly in their pans.

Turner โ€“ You may have seen these at your favorite burger joint.ย  They are made with a thin lip to get under food. They are also suitable for smashing food as well, like a grilled cheese.

Rubber โ€“ These come in a variety of sizes. They are useful for folding batters and scraping down the sides of a bowl. Some use them when cooking eggs. Just keep in mind since it is rubber, it can melt.

Fish – If you ever struggled to turn over a fish fillet without breaking it, then this one is for you.ย  It is thin and flexible, yet still pretty sturdy.

Whisk โ€“ I can make a case for having each of these whisks.ย 

Tiny โ€“ This one is great for smaller amounts.ย  The flat whisk is for your sauces and gravies.

Balloon โ€“ This is the most common whisk. It is the workhorse of the group since it can handle a lot of volume at once.

French โ€“ Like the balloon whisk, this kitchen utensil pulls its weight around the kitchen. Great for getting into tight spaces of a bowl, getting the lumps out of batters, as well as stirring things like grits.

Masher โ€“ There are two main types of mashers: one with a single wire and another with several holes.ย  Depending on your mashing and the consistency you want to achieve, it might be a good idea to have both types.

Basting brush โ€“ These come in nylon, silicone, and natural (boarโ€™s hair).

Ladle โ€“ A ladle is good for more than just serving; they are also great at portioning. Consider getting a couple of different sizes and shapes.

Why I Love to Cook

I love to cook, in case you have not noticed. In my (not so) humble opinion, I tend to be pretty good at it.ย  Recently, I realized I was using my cooking abilities in both a healthy and unhealthy manner.ย  As I look back over the years, I can see where I used it as a tool to get people to like me.ย  Moreover, I would use my culinary prowess to get praise and acceptance.

On the other hand, I used cooking to build my confidence and self-esteem.ย  When I go into the kitchen,ย  I leave my mental health issues at the door.ย  Cooking became a form of meditation. Additionally, my self-love grew as well.ย  Making masterpieces in the kitchen is a form of high praise that I heap upon myself.ย  In those moments, I am reenforcing I am worthy of this effort.ย  It took a while before I could appreciate my skill when applied to myself as opposed to others.

My Cooking Journey

When I was in single digits, I had an encyclopedia that had recipes intended for children.ย  Additionally, I collected a few Highlight magazines which had recipes as well. They were simple concoctions, such as Ants on a Log and other โ€œnon-cookingโ€ recipes.

As I marched toward double digits, I started scrambling eggs and baking cookies.ย  I made plenty of mistakes, such as using too much salt in the eggs. ย Once I even, I forgot to add sugar while making cookies. To โ€œfixโ€ the mistake, I sprinkled sugar on top before baking.ย  Of course, it didnโ€™t work!ย  Regardless of the setbacks, I continued trying and retrying recipes.

During my pre-teen years, my mother and I would spend a lot of time watching cooking shows on PBS on the weekend.ย  These weekly marathons helped me understand cooking methods.ย  Eventually, Food Network rolled around, introducing me to Alton Brown. He exposed the science behind cooking and reinforced knowing methods, not just recipes. ย It was around this time my love of cooking really blossomed.

Love to Cook

Now you know how I became interested in cooking.ย  Letโ€™s talk about how I became pretty good at cooking.ย  Was I born with some cooking jutsu? Did I study cooking at a culinary school? Nope and nope.ย  While I have taken a few culinary classes, I do not have formal culinary school training.ย ย  However, you do not need a culinary arts degree to be a good cook. ย Josh Elkin is a fantastic example of how imagination and practice can make up for formal education.

Hereโ€™s how I did it:

Practice

This is most helpful for skill development, such as knife styles.ย  Get a bag of potatoes, carrots, basil and, tomatoes to practice different knife cuts. Practicing aids in developing muscle memory, which in turn will help you use knives with more confidence.

Experiment

Experimenting is the number one way to kick up your spice and herb game.ย  Also, try switching up cheeses, protein, and vegetables in recipes to get a whole new spin on a dish.ย  Experimenting is quite fun and really helped me to develop my love to cook.ย 

Having a well-stocked pantry makes this phase easier.ย 

Studied

Studying for cooking is easier than it may sound.ย  You can take this step as far as you like, from learning about different cooking techniques to using spices from around the world.ย  Personally, I enjoy browsing Spice Inc to learn about the world of spices.ย 

In the modern kitchen, having the correct tools, such as cookware, utensils, knives, and โ€œgadgetsโ€ saves time. Shortly, I will make a list of my favorite kitchen equipment.

Comfort Zone

This is also good practice for real life as we often have to set out of zones as we interact with our environments.ย  Being able to dip a finger into an unfamiliar cooking area is one of the best ways to broaden our culinary horizons.ย  Even if you do not take the big plunge into authentic regional cooking, you can bring some elements into your regular cooking style.

Almost Lost My Love of Cooking

My love to cook was temporarily taken from me during one of my struggles with depression.ย  When I could muster the motivation for cooking, it was plagued with problems.ย  My internal timing was off; therefore, I burned or undercooked so much of my food.ย  My frustrations boiled over to the point where I knew I had to do something about it.ย 

I needed to start using timers.ย  The truth is, I had a resistance to timers because I was so proud of my ability to keep track in my head.ย  Unfortunately, this ability has not fully come back, but timers are easy to set on my Google Home products.

The Outcome

I was able to take this process and use it in my day-to-day life.ย  Cooking has taught me as I experience how to sit in my emotions for a moment, then find solutions or accept the new circumstance. My culinary experiences have given me a new lease on life.ย  It also helped me to change my outlook when faced with unfortunate setbacks.ย  It is my hope you enjoyed my cooking origin story and why I love to cook. Please leave a comment with your experiences!

Spicy Orange Beef

Tender top sirloin and tangy citrus are the stars of this show. You can use oranges or tangerines for this recipe, either way, it is delicious.
 

Allow me to introduce Spicy Orange Beef! It is a delicious and easy stir-fry dish.ย  It can be paired with rice or noodles, but personally, I love it by itself. ย This dish can be made in a wok or 12-inch skillet.

This recipe can be veganized by replacing the beef with Gardein beef tips or firm tofu. It was would probably work well with seitan too. Of course, it can also be a vegetable stir-fry; however, you would want to add sliced sweet onions, carrot chips, snow peas, or sugar snap peas.

Stir-Fry Tips

Spicy Orange Beef, like other stir-frys, requires a little bit of skill and preparation to pull off without a hitch. The following tips can help give you a leg up on this recipe. Be sure to have your mise en place finished before you start.ย  Mise en place means everything in its place.ย  In the culinary world, it is basically prep work.ย  Since a stir-fry cooks very quickly, it is crucial to have all the ingredients measured, chopped as required by the recipe.

Do not crowd the cooking vessel. Be sure to keep the food moving in the pan or wok continuously, except when a recipe says otherwise.ย  Use a wooden or silicone spatula to keep from scratching up the wok or pan. Add your sauce in the last step of the cooking.

Shortcuts

I think it is evident by now that I enjoy a good stir-fry.ย  Besides this Spicy Orange Beef recipe, I have posted Stir-Fry Beef and Broccoli and Thai Beef with Basil recipes.ย  It is the versatility and quickness for me. Buying pre-prepped ingredients can save time with prep work; consequently, those items will be more expensive. Stir-in ginger, pre-peeled garlic cloves, bagged broccoli florets, and carrot chips are some of the short cuts I feel safe taking.

Minced garlic stored in liquid is one of my least favorite shortcuts.ย  It just does not have the same flavor as fresh chopped garlic. ย When using pre-peeled garlic, I usually pass it through a garlic press.ย  This technique works well with sauces, soups, or any recipe where you do not want garlic pieces. Of course, you can slice and chop it as needed.

Spicy Orange Beef

Tender top sirloin and tangy citrus are the stars of this show. You can use oranges or tangerines for this recipe, either way, it is delicious.
Prep Time: 30 minutes
Cook Time: 30 minutes
Total Time: 1 hour
Cuisine: Asian
Servings: 4
Calories: 432.78kcal
Author: Tay M.

Ingredients

  • 3 medium navel oranges or 4 tangerines
  • 1 large bunch of broccoli 1ยฝ lbs (or 10oz bag of florets )
  • 3 tbsp. vegetable oil
  • 12 oz. boneless top sirloin steak thinly sliced crosswise
  • 2 tbsp. cornstarch plus ยฝ teaspoon
  • 2 tbsp.
  • 3 green onions cut on diagonal into 2-inch pieces
  • 1 red bell pepper thinly sliced
  • 1 serrano chile finely chopped, seeded for less heat
  • 3 cloves garlic finely chopped
  • 1 tbsp. fresh ginger peeled and minced
  • ยผ cup soy sauce
  • ยผ tsp. crushed red pepper

Instructions

  • Using a paring knife, peel and remove with white pith from 1 orange. Hold the orange/tangerine over a small bowl to collect the fruit and juice. Cut fruit away from the membrane to release each section by making a slice on each side. Set aside. With a vegetable peeler, cut 3-inch strips, about ยพ in wide from the other two oranges or 3 tangerines. Remove any of the white pith with a paring knife. Squeeze ยพ cup of juice into a bowl and set aside.
  • Cut broccoli into florets breaking down any larger pieces (if using the bagged florets, halve or quarter any large florets). Peels the stems and cut into ยผ-inch thick slices.
  • In a cup, combine the orange juice, soy sauce, crushed red pepper, and remainingยฝ teaspoon cornstarch and store until blended.
  • In a 12-inch skillet or wok, heat 2tablespoons oil over high until very hot. Add peel strips and cook until lightly brown, about 3 minutes. Keep them moving. Transfer to a larger bowl.
  • On a baking sheet, place the meat on a single layer and springer with 2tablespoons of cornstarch, coating evenly. Add half of the beef to skillet and stir-fry until brown on both sides, about5 minutes. Transfer to the bowl with the peels. Add the last tablespoon of oil and repeat with the last of the beef.
  • Add broccoli and water to the skillet, reduce heat to medium, and cover for 2 minutes. Increase heat to high and remove the lid. Add red bell peppers, serrano, and green onions, stir-fry for 2 minutes. Add ginger and garlic, stir-fry for one minute.
  • Give cornstarch mixture again, then add to the skillet. Stir until thickened. And boils.
  • Return beef mixture to skillet. Add citrus sections and juice in the bowl; toss to combine.

Notes

  • If the citrus fruit is a little bitter, add about 1 tablespoon of honey.
  • It takes a little practice to section an orange beautifully. Take a look at this guide on the Pioneer Woman website
  • Use the edge of a spoon to peel the ginger easily.

Nutrition

Serving: 0g | Calories: 432.78kcal | Carbohydrates: 34.02g | Protein: 25.27g | Fat: 23.76g | Saturated Fat: 5.71g | Trans Fat: 0.08g | Cholesterol: 66.34mg | Sodium: 986.69mg | Fiber: 8.5g | Sugar: 13.85g | Vitamin A: 14.1IU | Vitamin C: 303.54mg | Calcium: 17.59mg | Iron: 18.77mg
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Roasted Peking Chicken Breasts

Roasted Peking Chicken breast is a new recipe to help me in my quest to expand my culinary horizons. When I look for easy, delicious recipes, I cracked open my copy of The All New Good Housekeeping Cookbook by Susan Westmoreland. First off, I still love this cookbook. It was first published on December 31, 2001.ย  My copy is falling apart at the spine. Consequently, I bought a slightly used copy from eBay.ย  Oddly enough, I am still using the tattered copy.ย 

The cookbook has so many recipes I love, such as Thai Beef with Basil, Stir-fried Beef and Broccoli, Tzatziki, Spicy Black Bean Soup, and todayโ€™s recipe: Roasted Peking Chicken Breasts. This recipe packs a ton of ginger and garlic flavor.ย  There are also sweet notes from the hoisin sauce and the honey.ย 

A Little About Peking

According to Flavor & Fortune, Peking originates from the Peking/Beijing region. It is also known as Northern cuisine. Dishes made for the Emperor at the Imperial Palace eventually leaked to โ€œcommonโ€ people.ย  From there, the recipes took on a whole new life as cooks added their spin.

This dish, as well as others, is usually served with a Mandarin pancake.ย  However, in the United States, flour tortillas have replaced the pancake.ย  A whole chicken can replace the bone-in skin-on chicken breast. The cooking time will be increased to fifty minutes before adding the glaze.

The skin will get nice and crispy.ย  To aid this process, be sure to pour the boiling water SAFELY and SLOWLY over chicken on both sides.ย  Doing this will help render the fat in the skin.ย  In essence, the fat is โ€œfryingโ€ the skin.ย 

Wrap the tortillas in heavy-duty aluminum foil and place them in the oven after turning the heat off and taking the chicken out to rest. ย You can also cover the tortillas with paper towels and pop them in the microwave at 15-second intervals until the desired temperature is reached.

I hope you enjoy this Roasted Peking Chicken Breasts recipe as much as I did.ย  What are some of your favorite recipes?ย  Tell me in the comments below!

Roast "Peking" Chicken

Good Housekeeping produced the All New Good Housekeeping Cookbook; which is one of my favorite cookbooks. They have a recipe for a whole Roast Peking Chicken. I decided to alter it, to better fit my needs.
Prep Time: 15 minutes
Cook Time: 25 minutes
Resting Time: 10 minutes
Total Time: 50 minutes
Course: Main Course
Cuisine: Asian Inspired
Keyword: Asian Inspired, chicken, Peking
Servings: 2 people
Calories: 190kcal
Author: Tay M.

Equipment

  • Baking Rack
  • Saucepan small
  • Bowl small
  • Whisk or Wooden Spoon
  • Basting Brush

Ingredients

  • 2 ea Chicken Breasts Bone-in, skin-on
  • 2 tbsp honey
  • 1 tsp ginger fresh or paste
  • 2 ea garlic cloves
  • โ…› tsp ground red pepper cayenne
  • 4 ec flour tortillas
  • ยผ c hoisin sauce
  • 2 ec green onions green and white, each cut crosswise into thirds and sliced lengthwise into thin strips

Instructions

  • Preheat oven to 450ยฐF. Rinse with running cold water, then pat dry with paper towels
  • Place chicken on a rack in the sink, skin side up. Slowly pour 2 cups of boiling water over the chicken; turn the chicken over. Slowly pour 2 more cups over the back of the breasts. This step helps the fat render easier from the chicken meat. It also helps the skin get super crispy!
  • Place the chicken skin side up on a rack in a small roasting pan -roast chicken for 20 to 25 minutes.
  • Meanwhile, in a small bowl combine honey, soy sauce, vinegar, ginger, garlic, and red pepper.
  • After the chicken has roasted for 20 to 25 minutes, brush with half of the honey glaze; roast for five more minutes. Brush with remaining glaze and roast about 5 minutes longer. Chicken is done when the temperature registers 165 with a thermometer.
  • Move to a warm plate and let rest for 10 minutes.
  • Meanwhile, warm tortillas per the directions. Remove roasting rack and skim off any excess fat. Add broth and water to roasting pan and bring to boil. Scrape the bottom of the pan with a whisk or wooden spoon to dissolve browned bits. Stir in hoisin sauce.

To Serve

  • Slice chicken and wrap in tortillas with hoisin-sauce mixture and green onions.

Nutrition

Serving: 2g | Calories: 190kcal | Carbohydrates: 43g | Protein: 3g | Fat: 1g | Saturated Fat: 1g | Polyunsaturated Fat: 1g | Monounsaturated Fat: 1g | Cholesterol: 2mg | Sodium: 576mg | Potassium: 180mg | Fiber: 2g | Sugar: 27g | Vitamin A: 67IU | Vitamin C: 9mg | Calcium: 66mg | Iron: 1mg
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Introducing Tay Tastes Things

Hey guys! I’m thrilled to bring another segment to the TBPK blog: introducing Tay Tastes Things (TTT)!

After over four decades of life, I had a good handle on my likes and dislikes regarding culinary delights.ย  However, over the last ten years, I’ve noticed taste buds are changing. ย Brussel sprouts, green beans, collard greens, spinach, and avocado have taken up space on my mental “Do Not Eat” list for as long as I remember.ย  Fast forward to the present, brussels sprouts, spinach, and green are among my favorite vegetables!

So, what changed my mind?ย  I can’t recall what provoked the ah-ha moment, which had me singing a new tune. In all honesty, the difference between like and dislike came down to preparation. As it turns out, mushy vegetables were the real culprit. I like the majority of my non-scratchy veggies cooked to still be likely crunchy, like my marinated green beans.ย  As soon as the veggies began to soften, I find my happy place.ย  When talking about the leafy greens, I prefer them raw like my Spinach Salad nine times out of ten.

Tay Tastes Things (TTT)

Tay Tastes Things will focus on my adventures, trying new culinary delights to explain my culinary horizons further.ย  My goal is to try or retry five ingredients each week. “Ingredients” can be as simple as spices and seasonings to an elaborate dish featuring something new.

For October, I am committing to creating one meal each day. To that a step further, I will also be trying five new ingredients each week! When thinking about how I would add accountability, I came up with the idea for Tay Tastes Things!

I am very excited to bring this new segment to TBPK.ย  Look for all upcoming TTT blog posts each Sunday!

It is my hope you’ll join me in challenging your food beliefs.ย  Use the hashtag #PickyNoMore on your social mediaย posts!

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Glossary

Cabinets โ€“ A complete list of all the categories for my blog posts.ย  Some posts will have more than one category.ย  Click on one to see all the posts that fall within.

Dishes โ€“ Another name for individual blog posts.ย 

Ingredients โ€“These are the tags at the bottom of my blog posts. Posts will have more than one tag.ย  Clicking one will take you to all posts that fall within.

The Tableย โ€“ This is how I choose to label all the content posted to my blog. This blog is my kitchen, and our food and mental health wellness conversations happen around the kitchen table.

Menu Board โ€“ A complete list of all the pages on my site.

Monthly Menu Talks โ€“ A segment that discusses a mental health topic over a month posted on Tuesday.ย ย 

Care for YouCare For You is a new weekly Mental Health Wellness series posted on Monday. It focuses on rebuilding and strengthening our self-view and life skills.

Special of the Month โ€“ Special of the Month is a segment where I share my favorite recipes on the second Tuesday of each month. Some recipes will be my own, others from the internet and books, and a combination of them. I will acknowledge the original creator.

Tay Tastes Things – The bi-weekly series Tay Tastes Things (again) chronicles my food explorations. New posts are added bi-weekly on Sunday.

Taysty Tips – Nope, โ€œTaystyโ€ is not a typo, but a play on my nickname โ€œTayโ€ and the word โ€œtasty.โ€ Taysty Tips is a weekly series focusing on cooking methods, cooking techniques, food info, and more. Posts will be made each Monday.

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Stocking Series: Cookware

Cookware is the next topic in the stocking series.ย  This post provides a guide and looks at cookware for your stage on your cooking journey.ย  ย I am using the same tier structure as from my Pantry Stocking post.ย  Refer here for a reminder on how I define the different tiers.ย  Next, we will tackle bakeware!ย 

Many years ago, I purchased a set of pots from Fingerhut, which Cuisinart made.ย  Those pans had a non-stick interior, which lasted a good while considering the abuse they took.ย  In 2017, I decided it was time for a new set of cookware.ย  Between my first purchase and this impending one, I learned quite a bit about cookware.

Buying Cookware

No matter how you slice it, I am not a cookware snob.ย  If they hold and distribute heat evenly and have solid construction, they are helpful in my book.ย  I knew I needed something slightly heftier than expected when lifted.ย  Furthermore, holding and distributing heat requires a material such as aluminum.ย  However, that metal is reactive; therefore, the cooking surface needs to be covered by stainless steel.ย  On the bottom, inductive stainless steel will heat my cookware quickly.ย  In other words, it is non-reactive, heats evenly, gets hot fast, and stays hot.

Of course, there are safety features to consider, such as stay-cool handles, assist handles, and pour spouts.ย  Look at the handle fastening and the thickness of any glass lids.ย  Regarding usage and cleaning, ensure they are oven and dishwasher-safe.

My Current Cookware

Coming from non-stick, I decided to give stainless steel cookware a shot.ย  I wanted to caramelize and deglaze food, donโ€™t judge me, please.ย  Whereas when working with non-stick, the caramelization is not satisfactory since food cannot stick to the pan or pot.ย  Once again, I purchased Cuisinart Chefโ€™s Classic Stainless-steel.ย  I ordered this 17-piece set fromย  Amazon.ย  The only thing missing is a 6-quart pot, which I keep forgetting to buy.ย  Of course, I remember when I require it.ย ย 

Since the best pieces do not always find themselves in the collection, I do not favor cookware sets.ย  With that in mind, I have been lucky with Cuisinart cookware.ย  If you are thinking about getting a cookware set, head to your local kitchen store to take a comprehensive look at the individual pieces in the collection.ย 

One of my favorite books about gearing up the kitchen is my signed copy of Alton Brownโ€™s Gear For Your Kitchen.ย  Mr. Brown goes in-depth with each piece of equipment and doesnโ€™t stop with cookware!

Cookware Favorites' Tiers

Tier 1: Casual or New Cook

  • Cast-Iron Skillet 10 to 12 inches (in)
  • Roasting Pan
  • Stainless-Steel Skillet 10 to 12 in
  • Saucepan 3 to 4 quart (qt)
  • Stockpot 8 to 10 qt
  • Nonstick Skillet 10 to 12 in

Tier 2: Confident Cook Expanding Food Horizons.

  • 6-qt enamel cast iron Dutch oven
  • Griddle
  • Stovetop grill
  • 6-qt stockpot
  • 2-qt saucepot
  • Steamer
  • 12-in sautรฉ pan

Tier 3:ย Well-seasoned Culinary Adventurer

  • 8-in stainless-steel skillet
  • Wok
  • Double Boiler
  • Saucier
  • Braiser
  • Duplicates of saucepans, skillets, sautรฉ pans, Dutch ovens, and cast iron skillets in the most used sizes.
  • Ethnic cookware such as tagine, bamboo steamer, paella pan, and so on

I hope you enjoyed this cookware favorites list! What are some of your favorite pieces of cookware? Take a look at the gallery below!ย  Drop me a line on social media if you are enjoying this stocking series.ย  Make sure you sign up for post notifications via email so that you won’t miss a single bite!ย 

Stocking Series: The Pantry

When it comes to stocking the pantry, it can be hard to know what food items to always have on hand. Please allow me to help you.ย  This post is a comprehensive pantry list, regardless of your skill level.

I prefer frozen fruits and vegetables when it comes to frozen or canned.ย  Most canned products are slightly cooked.ย  ย If your tastes run different from mine, feel free to add your favorite canned meat, veggies, and fruit.ย 

It is frustrating to run out of things, especially when I am in the middle of cooking! (Hint: Use these tips to help the cooking process go smoothly.) ย Having a well-stocked pantry can save the day when creating a quick meal.

Click on the links throughout the tiers to find out more about specific products.

Remember These Factors

As you go through this post, keep in mind the following: your eating style (low-carb, gluten-free, vegan, and so on), number of eaters in the household, consider how often someone cooks in the home, personal taste, and ethnic foods.

Eating Style

This factor is a reminder to stock your pantry according to the type of diet(s) eaten in the household.ย  A vegan living solo will not require evaporated milk or chicken stock.ย  Someone on Keto does not need wheat flour or sugar. ย Gluten-free eaters will need to find appropriate substitutes for certain baking staples

Number of Eaters

Juggling different schedules can make meal planning and mealtimes challenging. ย ย If you know a member of your household tends to eat out all week, that can alter how much you want to keep on hand.ย 

Amount of Cooking

If you have a lot of mouths to feed, cook in bulk & freeze meals or cooking solo, it is important to evaluate the quantities you’ll need to keep on hand, then shop accordingly. During certain times of the year, a five-pound bag of flour can cost as much as a one-pound bag. Long-lasting ingredients such as flour tend to last quite a while if they are stored correctly. Just keep in mind the likelihood of using the product before it expires.

Personal Taste

Remember, this list is a guide.ย  Feel free to make changes to add and remove things according to your taste buds.ย 

Ethnic Foods

Different cultures use various herbs, spices, and other ingredients in their cooking that the average Americans may not know.ย  Be sure to keep those flavors in mind when creating your perfect pantry.

Which Tier Are You?

Stocking the pantry at your level will help perfect your cooking skills. Now that we have the “guidelines” down, let’s talk about how the list is structured. There are four sections: casual or new cook, confident and expanding, well-seasoned culinary adventurer, finishing with vegan additions & substitutions.ย 

Tier 1

Casual or New Cook.

This grouping will list the items needed for a well-stocked pantry.ย  Upon following this list, you should be able to whip up simple recipes for soups, quick breads (muffins, pancakes, etc.), sauces (marinara or gravy), and more.

Tier 2

Confident Cook Expanding Food Horizons.

Iโ€™m expanding upon Tier 1 to include commonly found staples to make more in-depth and complex meals and from-scratch-cooking.ย  This beefed up tier begins laying the foundation for recreating ethnic cuisines by adding โ€œbasicโ€ flavors and ingredients for cuisines such as Thai, Mexican, or Indian.

Tier 3

Well-seasoned Culinary Adventurer

For the person cooks almost every day and mostly creates their own recipes, Tier 3 brings out some flavor heavy hitters.ย  At this point, they are no stranger to world-wide cuisine with a flare for authenticity.ย  Most items in this section are also commonly found in large grocery stores or easily ordered online, depending on where you live.

Tier 4

Vegan Additions & Substitutionsย 

The majority of this list is already vegan, but there are a few additions and substitutions listed in Tier 4. In this final section, we explore the substitutes for items are denoted with โ€œsee Tier 4โ€. ย ย 

Remember,ย  you are free to alter the list according to your tastes and scale the tiers as you see fit. This post is just a guide, add your flare!

Let’s get starting on stocking the pantry!ย 

Tier 1: Casual or New Cook

First up on the Stocking the Pantry list is Tier 1. In this list, I provide almost all your needs to make it through mealtimes and even holidays. From herbs and seasonings to the foundation of many different types of dishes, this pantry list is exceptionally well rounded.ย  Paired with fresh ingredients, you can easily create meals more often, and even to branch out into new territory.ย 

Baking

  • All-Purpose flour
  • Baking powder
  • Baking soda
  • Chocolate bar (milk, bittersweet, white and/or unsweetened)
  • Chocolate chips, semi-sweet
  • Confectionerโ€™s sugar (powdered sugar)
  • Cornstarch
  • Evaporated and/or condensed milk (see Tier 4)
  • Granulated sugar
  • Honey (see Tier 4)
  • Light and dark brown sugar
  • Maple Syrup
  • Unsweetened cocoa powder

Canned, Boxed, and โ€œOtherโ€

Pasta

Oils and Vinegars

  • Apple Cider vinegar
  • Balsamic vinegar
  • Extra virgin olive oil
  • Non-stick cooking spray (baking, olive oil, canola/vegetable and/or grill)
  • Vegetable or canola oil

Condiments

  • Dijon mustard
  • Fruit jam or spread (strawberry, orange marmalade and/or apricot)
  • Hot sauce
  • Jarred salsa
  • Ketchup
  • Mayo
  • Peanut butter (smooth and chunky)
  • Pickles
  • Relish (sweet and/or dill)
  • Soy sauce
  • Worcestershire sauce (see Tier 4)
  • Yellow mustard

Herbs, Flavoring, and Spices

  • Black peppercorns
  • Chili powder
  • Cinnamon
  • Cream of tartar
  • Cumin
  • Curry powder
  • Dried basil
  • Dried bay leaf
  • Dried oregano
  • Dried rosemary
  • Dried sage
  • Dried thyme
  • Garlic powder or granulated
  • Ground cayenne pepper
  • Kosher salt
  • Onion powder or granulated
  • Red pepper flakes
  • Sweet paprika
  • Table salt
  • Vanilla extract

Grains and Legumes

  • Canned beans (black, pinto, red kidney, garbanzo, cannellini, and/or great northern. Unsalted varieties are the best.)
  • Cornmeal
  • Long-grain rice
  • Old fashion rolled oats

Nuts and Seeds

  • Almonds (sliced, whole and/or silvered)
  • Roasted peanuts
  • Shelled sunflower seeds
  • Walnuts

Tier 2: Confident Cook Expanding Food Horizons

Tier two covers items for those who cook pretty often and a nice set of cooking skills. With these additional items, you can branch out into ethnic cuisine (Thai, Indian, Spanish, Mexican, Caribbean, and so many more)! Also, you can create a twist on a classic recipe, such as Southwest Meatloaf or White Chicken Chili.

Baking

  • Almond extract
  • Cake flour
  • Molasses
  • Powdered buttermilk (see Tier 4)
  • Unflavored gelatin (see Tier 4)
  • Vanilla beans
  • Whole-wheat flour
  • Yeast (active or instant)

Canned, Boxed, and โ€œOtherโ€

  • Beef stock
  • Coconut milk
  • Diced green chile
  • Dried fruit (cranberries, apricots, raisins, etc.โ€ฆ)
  • Jarred pesto
  • Panko breadcrumbs
  • Roasted red bell peppers
  • Sardines
  • Steel-cut oats
  • Unsweetened coconut flakes
  • Whole tomatoes, canned

Pasta

Oils and Vinegars

  • Apple cider vinegar
  • Balsamic vinegar
  • Coconut oil
  • Olive oil or light olive oil
  • Peanut oil (for deep frying)
  • Sesame seed oil

Condiments

Herbs, Flavorings, and Spices

  • Caraway seed
  • Cardamom
  • Celery seed
  • Chile powders (single chile variety, such as ancho or chipotle)
  • Dried chives
  • Dried fennel
  • Dried Mediterranean oregano
  • Dried parsley
  • Dried tarragon
  • Dry mustard
  • Five-spice powder
  • Flaky sea salt
  • Garam masala
  • Ground coriander
  • Ground ginger
  • Poppy seeds
  • Sesame seed (toasted or untoasted)
  • Smoked paprika
  • Sumac
  • Turmeric
  • White pepper
  • Whole allspice
  • Whole cloves
  • Zaโ€™atar

Grains and Legumes

Nuts and Seeds

  • Cashews
  • Pecans

Tier 3: Well-seasoned & Venturing Cook

As a cook, you are at a point where it is all about flavors, especially new ones.ย  Having this arsenal at your disposal, you are ready to tackle recipe ideas whenever the mood hits.

Baking

Canned, Boxed and โ€œOtherโ€

Pasta

  • Buckwheat noodles
  • Rigatoni, cavatappi, ziti and/or orzo

Oils and Vinegars

  • Avocado oil or grapeseed oil
  • Flavored or herb vinegar or champagne vinegar
  • Mirin
  • Toasted sesame seed oil
  • Truffle oil
  • Walnut oil or almond oil

Condiments

Herbs, Flavorings, and Spices

  • Allspice berries
  • Black sesame seed
  • Cocoa nibs
  • Coriander seeds
  • Crystalized ginger
  • Cumin seeds
  • Dill weed
  • Ethnic spice mixes (such as dukkah/duqqa โ€“ Middle East, shichimi togarashiโ€“ Japanese)
  • Fenugreek
  • Furikake
  • Gochugaru
  • Hot paprika
  • Lavender
  • Lemongrass
  • Marjoram
  • Rosewater
  • Saffron
  • Savory
  • Wasabi powder
  • White pepper seeds
  • Whole dried chiles
  • Whole nutmeg
  • Whole star anise
  • Whole vanilla beans

Grains and Legumes

Nuts and Seeds

  • Chia seed
  • Flaxseed
  • Hazelnuts
  • Macadamia nuts
  • Pine nuts
  • Pistachios
  • Pumpkin seeds

Tier 4: Vegan Substitutes and Additions

Most of the stocking pantry list is vegan.ย  For items that are not vegan, there are some excellent substitutes for the above-referenced items (โ€œSee Tier 4). I also added some items I feel a vegan kitchen would use more often than others.

Vegan Substitutes

Tier 1

  • Coconut aminos. Used to replace soy sauce if necessary.
  • Coconut sugar. If you canโ€™t find organic brown sugar, this is similar but not as sweet.
  • Evaporated and/or condensed coconut milk โ€“ Tier 1.
  • Organic sugar โ€“ Tier 1. Bone char is not on the approved list to qualify for organic; therefore, all organic sugar is vegan.

Tier 2

  • Agar-agar. A replacement for gelatin.
  • Fish sauce. This item can be bought or made at home.
  • Nutritional yeast. Used to give a cheesy flavor.
  • Oyster sauce. This can be made at home or bought from Amazon.
  • Worcestershire sauce. Read labels carefully, some brands are made with anchovies.

Tier 3

  • Kelp powder. Used with Umeboshi, it can be a substitute for sardines.
  • Umeboshi Paste. A pickled plum paste which can be substituted for anchovy paste.

Vegan Additions

Tier 1

  • Shelf-stable almond or coconut milk (unsweetened, plain and vanilla)
  • Shelf-stable tofu

Tier 2

  • Black salt. This salt has a sulfur flavor that can mimic eggs in vegan egg salad and many other applications.
  • Dried mushrooms
  • Liquid smoke. A great way to add a smoky flavor.

Tier 3

  • Medjool Dates. If you are going to make your own substitutes, a lot of them are made with dates. Also, dates are used to make vegan caramel. ย 

Armed with a full pantry, you can tackle recipes with ease.ย  It doesn’t matter which level you land; it is all about having fun and enjoying a great meal made with your hands. The sense of accomplishmentย  I feel when I cook is a boost to my self-esteem.ย  I challenge you to try cooking to alleviate stress and provide self-care.

If you like this series, let me know!ย  Would you like to see gluten-free, paleo, and low-carb versions? Reach out to me on social media using the hashtag #StockingSeries! Show me pictures of your stocked pantry on Instagram and Twitter!

Coming soon to the stocking series is bakeware.ย  In the meanwhile, check out cookware and kitchen utensils guides.

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Anger Management: Understanding Triggers

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Welcome to week four of anger management coping skills. This week we will go over understanding triggers.

If you have missed any part of the series,ย click here! As always, remember myย disclaimerย before practicing any mental health information.

What is Anger Management?

If you have issues controlling your anger, you’re not alone. Anger is a normal and natural emotion, but it can negatively affect your mental and physical health and relationships when it becomes overwhelming. That’s where anger management comes in!

Keeping an anger log can be a fantastic first step in managing anger effectively. Here’s how it works:

  1. Get a notebook or use a digital note-taking app.
  2. Write down each instance of anger as soon as possible after it occurs. This will help you better understand the pattern of your anger.
  3. Include details such as the date, time, situation, emotions felt, and physical sensations. This will help you identify what triggers your anger and how your body reacts to it.
  4. Reflect on the patterns and common triggers in your anger log. This will help you gain insights into your anger patterns and how you can better manage them.
  5. Use this information to come up with healthier ways to cope with anger in the future. This could be anything from taking deep breaths, practicing mindfulness, or seeking professional help.

By keeping an anger log, you can take the first step towards managing anger and improving your quality of life. So give it a try and see how it can help you!

Check out TherapistAid.com for a printable worksheet.ย 

Goals

The purpose of the coping skill is to help individuals gain control over their emotions, thoughts, and behavior in situations that trigger anger and to handle conflicts more positively and effectively.

  1. Recognize and understand the triggers that cause anger
  2. Learn to control and regulate intense anger and aggressive behavior
  3. Communicate in a non-threatening and assertive manner
  4. Develop healthy coping mechanisms for managing anger
  5. Improve relationships and overall quality of life.

Are you tired of feeling like a ticking time bomb, just waiting for something to set you off? Well, the good news is that you can control your anger by being aware of your triggers.

Triggers are simply things or situations that set off your anger. They’re different for everyone, but some common triggers include traffic, stressful work situations, and relationship issues. By being aware of what sets you off, you can take control of your anger and use that knowledge to your advantage.

Here’s how:

  1. Identify your triggers: Write down a list of things or situations that make you angry. Be specific and honest with yourself.
  2. Analyze your triggers: Once you have your list, think about why each trigger makes you angry. Is it a personal issue? A past experience? Understanding the root of your anger can help you control it.
  3. Plan ahead: When you know what sets you off, you can plan ahead and come up with coping skills to deal with those triggers. This can be as simple as taking a deep breath or going for a walk when you start to feel angry.
  4. Practice mindfulness: When you’re in a triggering situation, take a moment to pause and practice mindfulness. Focus on your breathing and the present moment instead of getting caught up in your anger.
  5. Reframe your thoughts: Finally, try to reframe your thoughts. Instead of thinking, “This is so unfair!” try thinking, “This is a challenge, but I can handle it.” This shift in mindset can help you control your anger.

By being aware of your triggers and using the knowledge to your advantage, you can control your anger and improve your mental health. So, take a deep breath, and start working on identifying your triggers today!

Let me know if you have tried this! Use the hashtags #taysbpkitchen and #angermanagement